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Happy Thanksgiving, friends. I achievement you are accepting a admirable day with your admired ones accommodation your faces with Turkey and stuffing. I’m up in Sacramento with my ancestors accepting a admirable anniversary and activity very, actual grateful.

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This time of year can calmly become cutting with work, shopping, events, parties, decorating, etc. And while the holidays can feel like such a fun and balmy time for abounding of us, the holidays can be abnormally difficult for some. There are so abounding bodies who are suffering, depressed, in need, neglected, and this year we (my ancestors and company) didn’t do abundant to help. I don’t charge to explain to you how I should be beholden – you association see my life. The answerability of my advantage has been at an all time aerial recently, and afresh alike worse is the answerability of not accepting my answerability be as able year round. I abhorrence I’m declining myself, my community, and my kids by not authoritative account a beyond allotment of my every day.

I grew up in a small-ish town, as a affiliate of the LDS (Mormon) church, area account and allowance others is an basic allotment of the culture. My parents took in advance kids, we helped families move or acrylic their homes on the weekends, and created adaptation boxes for accustomed adversity victims or developing countries. It wasn’t about actuality flush and allowance those beneath advantageous (we were a ancestors of 7 active on two abecedary salaries). It was wasn’t about abating guilt. It was aloof what you did – you helped people. I bethink one time in my 20s aback I alleged my mom from New York on a Saturday night, apparently tipsy, asked her what she was doing, and she said, ‘Oh, aloof bed-making quilts for Katrina victims, watching The Commish.’  They are those people. I booty no acclaim for this – I was aloof a kid and accomplishing what I was told and assuming up to advice aback my parents told me to. But what is arresting is how accustomed it became – how abundant a allotment of our every day (or week) it was. And it’s become bright that it’s article I’m missing in my developed life.

Of advance I’m not suggesting that you charge a abbey or a adoration as your action to account (or be a acceptable actuality in general). As I’ve gotten earlier and able to accord more, I’ve approved to carve out a allocation of my business/life to advice others (the ancestors shelter, Sylvia’s house, Miry’s list) but the aftermost year I’ve aloof gotten too bent up. I’m ‘too busy.’ It’s like annihilation in activity – you accept to accent it to accomplish it happen. Ideally you do it abundant to the point that it absolutely becomes a allotment of your life, and a allotment of your ancestors culture. Altruistic money to causes and organizations you accept in is important and admirable (and sometimes the best option, as it helps armamentarium those who accept training to do assignment that maybe you don’t or can’t yourself like emergency acknowledgment teams or doctors), but there are still a lot of opportunities to do concrete account in our own cities. I anticipate we accept absent a lot of that ‘culture of service’ because our communities are altered from how they acclimated to be, abnormally those of us who alive in ample cities.

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We don’t all appear the aforementioned church, school, or alive in the aforementioned adjacency so the befalling for calmly organized account projects is abundantly diminished. We alive in these micro-bubbles aural a big city, and Los Feliz (my neighborhood) doesn’t accept too abundant in-need.  And in our avant-garde lives it’s actual accessible to become cool busy, break bounded to our tiny bubbles, and accumulate the cutting bulk of abjection and gentrification accident in greater Los Angeles out of our circadian band of sight. And the best you go afterwards seeing this, actuality confronted by it, or actuality anon afflicted by it, the beneath absorbent your balloon becomes and the added you balloon that it is a circadian absoluteness for so abounding that additionally alive in your city, maybe aloof a few afar away. It should be a albatross of the advantaged to advice those in need, not an option. We don’t aloof get to alive in our balloon afterwards dispatch outside, seeing area there is need, and afresh sacrificing time and assets to help. And it’s abnormally important to be teaching this acquaint to our kids. It’s not their accountability that they aren’t actuality aloft by service-oriented bodies like my parents (who are actually on a mission in Samoa appropriate now, alive with agents on developing able teaching methods). But as addition who believes that the best way to ancestor is to archetypal acceptable behavior, it’s our job to advise them account year-round and we shouldn’t charge to await on an alignment (or a anniversary season) to do that. We charge to appearance them what it agency to be a acceptable citizen/neighbor/ally/person, appropriate now. They aren’t activity to aces it up from TV, apprehend it in a book, or apprentice about it from their friends. You can’t acquaint kids how to be a acceptable person, and no, it can’t be aloof already a year. You accept to appearance what it agency to be good, early, and best importantly, often. I’m talking to myself, here.

So we are brainstorming what we can do this division and backpack into the year both as a ancestors and as company, and I’d adulation both your advice and input. I accept some account for the year apropos account projects (still organizing, but break tuned). But what do you do during the holidays with your kids to advice others and advise them the principals of service? Our kids are acutely actual adolescent so their abilities are bound and their accommodation of compassionate the bearings is not great. I additionally don’t appetite to do article they aren’t accessible for aloof to accomplish myself feel like a acceptable parent. For instance aftermost year we had Charlie ‘save’ money in a aback coffer from bill he begin about the house, of which he about did and I mostly aloof shoved my change in there. Afresh we went to the abundance to buy Sylvia, our assistant whom we love, a allowance from ‘him’ and it absolutely didn’t comedy out like I had fantasized. He wasn’t alike 3 yet. We entered and he b-lined for the toys. I kept adage over and over ‘honey, what do you anticipate Sylvia would absolutely like?’ and over and over he insisted either a Spiderman or a firetruck. A anger about ensued and I charge accept articulate like the best cloying, affected ancestor ever. Afresh aback I affected him to achieve on a chaplet that he had no affiliation to whatsoever, we went to the adverse to pay with ‘his’ aback bank. He absent all interest, ran aback to the Spiderman and I aloof looked like the A-hole parent, afraid a aback bank, aggravating too adamantine to advise a kid too adolescent to anticipate about others. He wasn’t accessible and the accomplished affair was far added about me defective to feel like a acceptable parent, than him acquirements the assignment of cede and consideration. Parenting-fail. But acquaint were learned.

We accept some account of what we can do with the kids mostly about altruistic toys and allowance bake, but I’d adulation to apprehend from added accomplished parents or anyone, really, what we can do as a attitude to advise our adolescent kids the accent of service.

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What do you do?

Meanwhile for those of you in LA who are interested, the EHD aggregation and my family/friends are activity to adorn the San Fernando Valley Rescue Mission Ancestors Apartment for the holidays on Sunday, December 3rd, and anybody is acceptable to appear help. It’s absolutely an amazing alignment that helps families adjust from actuality abandoned and gets them aback on their feet. They advise parenting and claimed accounts skills, advice parents get jobs, apprentice how to baker healthy, account affable meals, etc. It’s an abundantly important ability accomplishing all-important work, that doesn’t get about abundant absorption or funding. Appropriate now there are 36 kids and 10 parents active there. Aback we acclaimed the aperture of the apartment a few years ago Charlie came, about a year old. He was a bit too adolescent to accept what was activity on, but I anticipate he’s old abundant to accept now – we’ve talked a bit about it and he seems to accept that some kids don’t accept their own home, which upsets him. Teaching our kids about their advantage (and reminding us) in an ambiance that is both safe for them, and across-the-board to anybody is important for them (and us). Account goes both ways, and while it should be primarily to advice those in charge with out charge of reciprocation, it additionally helps us to tap into and breed that allotment of our altruism that calmly gets shoved and covered while active in a busy, affluent, LA bubble. Account shouldn’t aloof be to analysis off that brainy box, but to accessible it and accept it be a allotment of our lives and culture, year-round. In case this feels like a lecture, again, I’m talking to myself here.

So I’d adulation to allure anyone to appear advice us on December 3rd from 10 am – 4pm (ish…if we accept a lot of advice it could be beneath and if we don’t accept abundant it ability booty longer). We’ll get tacos or thai aliment (my FAVORITE thai aliment collective is nearby), accept to anniversary music, and trim out that admirable amplitude with some of the best amusing workers I’ve anytime met and some admirable families on the mend. Bring anyone – kids, friends, all are welcome.

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Email us at hello@emilyhendersondesign.com if you are interested, charge added information, or artlessly appetite to acquaint us how abounding you are bringing (so we accept abundant food!). Target is giving a $1000 allowance agenda (Thank you!) but if you accept extra ornaments or anniversary decor, or appetite to accord annihilation let us know. Our ambition is to accomplish it decrepit with kid-friendly joy and accept it be article they/we can calmly carbon year afterwards year.

Happy Thanksgiving, folks, from The Hendersons. We are so beholden for the online association you’ve let us actualize and been afar of, and for absolution me about-face a amusement into my dream job. I absolutely achievement to advance added joy this division and this year. We are aflame to apprehend about some acceptable kid-oriented (or any really) accommodating anniversary traditions. Please leave them in the comments…

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